Our scripture this morning is Proverbs 18:19-21 (NLT).
An offended friend is harder to win back than a fortified city. Arguments separate friends like a gate locked with bars. Wise words satisfy like a good meal; the right words bring satisfaction. The tongue can bring death or life; those who love to talk will reap the consequences.
This passage from Proverbs warns us about our words and the power they have over our relationships with others. What we say to and about each other can affect our lives, their lives and those around us. Words may not be the same as actions, but a verbal attack can hurt much longer than a physical assault.
Later in James 3:10 we read “And so blessing and cursing come pouring out of the same mouth. Surely, my brothers and sisters, this is not right!” When we shame one another with what we say, we damage our connection with them and with God. We need to be aware of how our words affect each other and ourselves.
Jesus teaches us about this issue in the Sermon on the Mount: “But I say, if you are even angry with someone, you are subject to judgment! If you call someone an idiot, you are in danger of being brought before the court. And if you curse someone, you are in danger of the fires of hell” (Matthew 5:22). Obviously Jesus takes what we say very seriously and we must as well.
Loving Lord, we are sorry for the times our words damage Your creation. Help us to see everyone as Your beloved children and bring the joy of a connection with You to the world. Amen.
